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FAQ

As questions are asked while I interview potential slaves I will post them here if I feel they’ll shed light on the household or me personally. Also, you can feel free to send questions to me privately that I will answer (and post here if applicable).

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Q. The life that Sir Jude describes sounds like it can be fun but also a lot of physical work. I’m worried that I’m overweight/out-of-shape/etc. and won’t be eligible.
A. The only way you’d be ineligible is if you are so overweight that you need constant breaks or cannot perform physical tasks. Otherwise, yes – it will be physical work and yes, everyone who serves will be put on a diet and exercise regimen. The work will be hard the first few times but eventually the body and mind will acclimate.

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Q. I understand that Sir Jude wants slaves to ask him questions to help get to know him. What are some things that are his favorites to help get the conversation going?
A. Movies (and some TV shows) are a major passion in my life. I'm filled with (essentially useless) trivia knowledge of movies and, in fact, run my own Netflix-type server. I also enjoy reading (or listening to audiobooks) a lot. My favorite authors are Patricia Cornwell, Seanan McGuire (aka Mira Grant), Kim Harrison, and Jaqueline Carey. I love apocalypse stories (and movies/shows) but can be pretty picky about those. Animals and the Environment are very important to me. I've spent most of my work life in the animal-care field and one of my two degrees is in Environmental Management/Sciences.

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Q. Does Sir Jude entertain others at his home?
A. While I enjoy my privacy I would rather entertain at home than go out, although attending events (kink or vanilla) can be fun as well. As such, there might be times I entertain at home whether it’s one or two friends over to just hang out, maybe watch a movie or play games, or having friends over for dinner. In these instances, a slave will be expected to serve appropriately whether it’s just getting drinks/snacks as needed or tending to the whole meal. Occasionally, a slave may be ordered to serve or service a guest sexually. Only guests who have been pre-verified by me to be SSC and STD/STI clear will be allowed to use my slaves in such a manner.

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Q. I see that Sir Jude identifies as a trans man/FtM. Is there anything specific I should know or be aware of?
A. I began Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) back in 2014 and will be on it for the rest of my life using weekly injections. I have full facial hair, and full body hair (overall hairy but not thick all over like some really hairy men). I do not acknowledge my “front hole” in any way and, as such, no slave should either. For all intents and purposes it does not exist, treat it as such (absolutely no penetration). I call my clit, “Cock” and any slave who makes references to it should use cock. Any time I talk about cocks or cock sucking that is what I'm referring to (or my strap-ons) when wearing one. Additionally, I intend to get top surgery. Bottom surgery is lengthy (multiple surgeries and long recovery times for each) and painful so that may never happen. I do NOT enjoy penetration with the exception of tongue or the occasional finger in my ass otherwise, there will be NO penetration to me. Alternatively, I enjoy penetrating any of my slaves in any way I desire – the bonus here is that I can use cocks of any size or shape whenever I want. It is STRONGLY ADVISED that anyone who intends to serve me read up or watch plenty of YouTube videos to learn about transgender people. Otherwise, as long as you consider me a male and treat me as such you’re on safe ground.

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Q. I smoke/drink/coffee addict/etc…
A. When a slave surrenders itself it will not be a slave to its own desires and addictions. It will serve only one master and that will be me. Further, since these things tend to be costly especially since I don't spend money on them personally I will NOT be paying for them or using any household funds. Since a slave doesn't have property/funds for itself it will not be able to maintain the habits on their own anyway. A slave will always be of sound mind and be able to function at a moment’s notice and, therein, will not be allowed to drink alcohol or use drugs (including poppers. 
**Anyone with an actual addiction to alcohol, drugs, and such will NOT be eligible for consideration.**

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Q. I understand Sir Jude is a motorcycle rider, but I don’t know how to ride/scared of bikes. Does that mean I cannot apply?
A. While I'm currently without a bike I do intend to get another one eventually. Not being able to ride or being scared to get on one will NOT disqualify you from applying. I will, however, teach every slave how the bike should be cared for and they will be required to tend to the bike accordingly (which doesn't require riding it). Whether it’s running outside at the start of the rain (and this could mean in the middle of the night) to cover the bike or washing/polishing it. Additionally, after a ride, I tend to drop my gear (sometimes there’s a bunch) at the door or nearby. Slaves will be expected to clean the gear accordingly and put the items away.

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Q. I live overseas but this seems like the household I’ve been searching for. Can I apply?
A. Those overseas are generally not accepted simply due to the complexity of it. There is a major issue with arranging any meetings prior to becoming a live-in and also the complex matter of getting citizenship (especially with the current political goings-on) or other requirements for a long-term stay in the U.S. that I've opted not to get involved with. If you have dual citizenship or already have your own means of staying in the country then it’s something that can be discussed.

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Q. I have a disability, will I still be able to serve?
A. This is highly dependent on the disability itself. It’s important to realize that I'm seeking someone who can lift objects, be able to carry things up and down stairs, handle a variety of laborious tasks, and so forth. While there are currently no pets I intend to get at least a dog  (but likely various farm-type animals) and, as such, will require walking/cleaning up after them. This will be handled on a case-by-case basis, but if you think you’re capable of providing most of the services I seek then you are welcome to apply and the matter will be discussed in detail. If you have significantly limited mobility then this may not be the best setting for you. Be sure to let me know within the first email if you have any kind of limitations or special needs (mentally or physically) so it can be discussed immediately.

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Q. If I relocate from out of state can I still keep my home/apartment from my original state?
A. I'm seeking only long-term, permanent slaves. If you’re nervous about giving up your previous residence “just in case” then you’re not ready to move into the household. An M/s lifestyle is built completely on trust and that must be established and solidified prior to moving in. There can be exceptions made for those who own a house. This consideration is made for various reasons but will not be an option if maintaining the payments on your old house interferes with your ability to serve or if it’s expected that I will take over the payments. Certain circumstances wherein keeping the home to possibly have it rented out for an additional source of income or even keeping it as a secondary/vacation house for the household, in general, may be considered. If you have an interest in keeping your existing residence explain what the home is, where it’s located (state/area), and why you specifically want to keep it.

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Q. What will happen with all of my belongings?
A. This, too, will be handled on a case-by-case basis. Some slaves want to surrender everything including all possessions to be used or disposed of as their owner sees fit. Others wish to maintain some precious mementos. If you wish to keep belongings the slave will be responsible for renting their own storage unit nearby that these items can be kept in (or the slave may even possibly be tasked with building a shed on the property for such storage purposes). Some items might be integrated into the household if they serve a function that benefits me/the household. Otherwise, for items that have no sentimental value or use by me, they can be donated to various causes (depending on the items) or sold. Prior to making the final steps in becoming a live-in slave, it will be expected to provide a detailed itemization/accounting of their possessions wherein I will let the slave know how they are to be handled.

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Q. I don’t want to work outside the home once I become a slave.
A. The rule of the household is that a slave is never to be a burden to me, including financially. There’s a variety of ways to “work” whether it’s an “at-home” job, work at a variety of tasks/jobs/business areas that I have/will develop, pension/retirement, or some other kind of income source. Whenever possible the income source will be in-house.  A slave that is capable of generating in-house income without having to work outside of the home is ideal. I will not, however, accept freeloaders.

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