When I say I'm looking for a real-life arrangement I don't mean cyber chat. This is especially true when I talk about mind fuckery because I don't mean it as a fun session or two or as a game that will be done just whenever the mood strikes. I'm speaking about genuine methods of mental reprogramming and that means actually changing a person in some or all ways possible. 

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There will be plenty of back-and-forth chatting as we get to know each other and some of it will be hot as fuck because we will definitely need to discuss our desires, kinks, and limits. I really like to dig in deep to what desires, fears, drives, passions, and everything else another holds because it all helps to 1 - learn about them as a person to see if we click and that a full-time, real-life situation would be viable but also 2 - Helps me get deeper into their minds and use all that information to train them.

I like to use a variety of methods - gaslight, hypnosis (for those it works on), brainwashing, positive reinforcement, negative reinforcement, the whole works. But I won't do online games or domination because it just does nothing for me. It feeds the other person sexually and mentally but for the time and effort I invest I get nothing back in return and that's really not a dynamic I seek. I don't begrudge those who love such a thing or who do feel fulfilled from it - but it's not for me. But I especially will not do edgier things, most especially anything with mental fuckery, on a fly-by-night temporary basis because: 

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1 - It takes a lot of time and effort to make it work. Playing inside someone's mind is not an easy thing that happens overnight and will require constant work on both ends as consistency is the key component (with anything in life, really). Doing things across texts or other mediums is limited in what can be done and how it can be done and limits the consistency required.

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2 - It's very difficult, if not actually impossible, to genuinely enforce the behaviors or respond with proper punishment for failures. Punishment isn't always physical - in fact, it rarely is with me. I like to find the punishment that most accurately fits the infraction - sassy mouth = soap in mouth or no-speaking for a set period of time. But see - neither of those things can be done from a distance or really enforced. 

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3 - My lifestyle is that of a full-time RVer/traveler. As such, I (and thus whoever commits to me full-time) would live a rather free life. That entails many great things like joining me on excursions, not having to work a traditional job, and getting to make as many fantasies into reality as possible. But that also means I live in a manner that allows me to avoid society as much as I want and that is an ideal situation to do considerable mind fuckery work as there are no external influences to fight against or cause interruptions. 

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While I understand the concept is really hot - it is! It's not a willy-nilly game just for kicks for me. It's a genuine and deep desire to control someone entirely - physically and mentally and to control how their mind works. It's a full-time commitment on my part and theirs and requires surrender from them to allow it to happen and an environment that can help create the best possible situation to allow it to happen. As such - I will ONLY get into mind fuckery with someone who can and will submit to me fully and that means being able to relocate (because, as mentioned, I travel full-time).